There was a mother who stayed awake each night while her house slept.
In her hands was a small oil lamp. She did not walk the roads, fight enemies, or force doors open. She simply kept the lamp burning.
Some nights the flame was steady. Other nights it flickered low, and she had to refill it with oil, even when she was tired. She never knew exactly where her child was walking, but she believed this: if the path was dark, the light still mattered.
Far away, her child stumbled through unfamiliar ground. He did not see the lamp, but somehow the darkness never fully swallowed him. When he finally turned back, he realized something had been guarding his steps all along.
The lamp had not chased him.
It had waited.
And when he returned, it was still lit.
As a parent, your prayers have a profound impact on your child’s life. When your child is struggling with pornography or masturbation, praying intentionally and consistently can invite God’s power to break strongholds and bring healing. This 31-day prayer guide provides Scriptures, prayer points, and specific areas to pray for your child each day.
Commit the next 31 days to praying with consistency. Ask God for endurance, faith, and tenderness as you intercede.
Use one card each day. Read the Scripture, then pray it over your child.
Tap a
card to mark it as prayed.
Verse: “The Lord is near to all who call on Him, to all who call on Him in truth.” (Psalm 145:18)
Prayer: Lord, draw near to my child. Let them feel Your presence and know that You are with them even in their struggles.
Verse: “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins...” (1 John 1:9)
Prayer: Father, bring conviction to my child’s heart, not to shame them, but to lead them to repentance and restoration.
Verse: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” (Romans 12:2)
Prayer: Lord, renew my child’s mind with Your truth. Replace impure thoughts with Your Word and promises.
Verse: “The weapons we fight with... have divine power to demolish strongholds.” (2 Corinthians 10:4)
Prayer: Father, break every stronghold of pornography and masturbation in my child’s life. Set them free by Your power.
Verse: “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.” (Matthew 5:8)
Prayer: Lord, create in my child a pure heart. Help them to desire what is holy and pleasing to You.
Verse: “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor.” (Ecclesiastes 4:9)
Prayer: Father, provide my child with a trusted mentor or accountability partner who can guide and encourage them.
Verse: “For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love, and self-discipline.” (2 Timothy 1:7)
Prayer: Lord, strengthen my child with the fruit of self-control. Help them resist temptation and make godly choices.
Verse: “Those who look to Him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame.” (Psalm 34:5)
Prayer: Father, heal my child from any shame or guilt they feel. Remind them of Your grace and love.
Verse: “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18)
Prayer: Lord, fill my child’s heart with gratitude. Let thankfulness replace discontentment.
Verse: “And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.” (Matthew 6:13)
Prayer: Father, protect my child from the things that trigger their struggles. Guard their eyes, mind, and heart.
Verse: “Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” (James 4:7)
Prayer: Father, give my child the strength to resist the enemy. Help them to rely on Your power and find victory in moments of temptation.
Verse: “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” (2 Corinthians 5:17)
Prayer: Lord, remind my child of their identity in You. Help them see themselves as a new creation, free from the weight of their past struggles.
Verse: “The joy of the Lord is your strength.” (Nehemiah 8:10)
Prayer: Father, restore joy to my child’s heart. Let their happiness be rooted in You, giving them strength and peace in every situation.
Verse: “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” (Psalm 119:105)
Prayer: Lord, give my child a hunger for Your Word. Let them turn to Scripture for guidance, strength, and comfort.
Verse: “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” (Galatians 6:9)
Prayer: Father, help my child to persevere, even when the journey feels hard. Give them courage to continue pursuing freedom and purity.
Verse: “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” (James 1:5)
Prayer: Father, give my child wisdom to make choices that honor You. Help them discern what is right and avoid situations that lead to temptation.
Verse: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” (Psalm 147:3)
Prayer: Lord, heal my child’s heart from any emotional pain caused by their struggles. Replace their brokenness with wholeness and peace.
Verse: “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.” (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
Prayer: Lord, give my child the courage to seek help when they need it. Surround them with people who will support and encourage them in their journey.
Verse: “But godliness with contentment is great gain.” (1 Timothy 6:6)
Prayer: Father, teach my child to find contentment in You rather than seeking fulfillment in temporary pleasures. Let them see the beauty of what You have provided.
Verse: “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32)
Prayer: Lord, help my child to forgive themselves for their struggles. Remind them that Your forgiveness is complete and unconditional.
Verse: “Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others...” (1 Peter 4:10)
Prayer: Father, give my child a desire to serve others. Let them focus on helping and uplifting others, finding purpose in living for Your glory.
Verse: “Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.’” (1 Corinthians 15:33)
Prayer: Lord, guide my child to build relationships with people who encourage them to grow closer to You. Protect them from unhealthy influences.
Verse: “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him.” (Romans 15:13)
Prayer: Father, fill my child with hope in You. Remind them that their future is bright because of Your promises and faithfulness.
Verse: “I can do all this through Him who gives me strength.” (Philippians 4:13)
Prayer: Lord, give my child confidence in Your strength. Let them know that with You, they can overcome any challenge.
Verse: “But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently.” (Romans 8:25)
Prayer: Father, teach my child patience as they work toward freedom. Help them trust that You are guiding them, even when the progress feels slow.
Verse: “Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes.” (Ephesians 6:11)
Prayer: Lord, protect my child from the enemy’s attacks. Equip them with Your armor to stand firm against temptation.
Verse: “If you love me, keep my commands.” (John 14:15)
Prayer: Father, let my child find joy in obeying You. Show them the blessings that come from walking in alignment with Your will.
Verse: “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You.” (Isaiah 26:3)
Prayer: Lord, calm my child’s mind and fill it with Your peace. Help them focus on Your truth rather than on anxiety or fear.
Verse: “Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever.” (Psalm 107:1)
Prayer: Father, fill my child’s heart with gratitude for Your love and faithfulness. Let them approach each day with thankfulness for Your blessings.
Verse: “But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.” (2 Peter 3:18)
Prayer: Lord, help my child grow deeper in their relationship with You. Strengthen their faith and lead them to experience Your grace more fully.
Verse: “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.” (Galatians 5:1)
Prayer: Father, I declare victory over my child’s struggles. Thank You for setting them free and giving them the strength to live in purity and joy. May they walk boldly in the freedom You have given them.
Week 1 (Days 11-17)
Overcoming Temptation & Finding Strength
Week 2 (Days 18-24)
Identity, Boldness & Healthy Roots
Weeks 3-4 (Days 25-31)
Patience, Joy & Final Victory
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for Your faithfulness throughout these 31 days of prayer. I trust that You are working in my child’s
heart, bringing healing, strength, and freedom. Guide them as they grow closer to You and help them live as a
testimony of Your grace.
In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.